Tuesday, June 19, 2007

BOOK: Why Men Marry Bitches: A Woman's Guide to Winning Her Man's Heart

browsed this book at National Bookstore while waiting for a friend.

curious ako malaman ang buong katotohanan at pawang katotohanan lamang ... Why Men Marry Bitches samantalang pagkakaalam ko eh isa akong certified bitch, pero bakit di pa ako pinapakasalan? lolz!

this is a self-help paperback that looks like a must-read for every single who is in the dating world. the book include numerous relationship principles (RELATIONSHIP PRINCIPLE# 5 - Don't believe what anyone tells you about yourself. Sophia Loren said, "Beauty is how you feel inside, and it reflects in your eyes. It is not something physical." This is what makes you gorgeous to a quality man, because now you arrive complete. And that makes him say, "Gee, I wonder, what is that special magic she got?")

gusto ku sana mapasaakin itung libru na tu kaso wa ku afford. so nagtiyaga ako sa pa flip-flip ng mga pages nya habang nakatayo. at nakuntento sa review rin ng isang author na si Barbara Rose,PhD:

"I really like this book! It's a great read, no holes barred, tell it like it REALLY is book, and it's the TRUTH!

Who YOU are, what you love, your individual preferences and your backbone to dare to have the courage to be and express yourself EXACTLY as YOU want to, gives you the backbone, and the real inner confidence that is essential to a relationship - that you CAN LIVE WITHOUT - so you never buckle under and compromise your truth and dignity for anyone, ever.

Also, you're not NEEDY, you are LIVING and being just who you are, and if he doesn't like it, then he can buy a doormat at the local auto supply shop.

It takes GUTS and tremendous SELF LOVE to really be yourself, and feel complete solo - then a surprising thing happens, because you don't need, you receive! And He receives the best too, once you know who you are, and what you're REALLY all about, you'll have the confidence that can sustain a great, EQUAL relationship.

The key here, sisters, is that he has to win YOU over. YOUR GENUINE CONFIDENCE AND BEING YOUR REAL SELF IS THE KEY!"


3 comments:

AZRAEL said...
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AZRAEL said...

Being a bitch is a state of mind, an emotional utter. At least I like to believe it is. If ur gonna ask a man, why we like to marry a bitch, or at least wanting to get hitched to one.. simple lang ang sagot jan. coz we want to be forever entangled and intertwined with someone who can take care of herself, someone who knows what she want, and knows how to get them. Someone who’s not a pushover nor a patsy, and can decide on matters on our behalf, when the need arise. Someone who will fight and wrestle for something she believes in. in short, ayaw naming mga lalaki na ang magiging asawa namin eh nakaupo lang sa isang tabi, naghihintay ng utos at walang alam isagot kung hindi “yes honey”. If we wanted someone to obey our every whims, without even arguing what it’s for and why, we could’ve gotten ourselves maids lol. Take it from me, most men like their women taking charge at times. =) if being a bitch means any of the things I’ve mentioned above… GIMME A BITCH ANYTIME!

Maru said...

well-said, az.

a lot of women (that includes me)still don't know how we are being perceived by men. sino may sabing babae lang ang mahirap maintindihan?

til now many of us women still don't understand how the man's mind work, what's inside his cranium and how to interpret his non-verbal behaviour. siguro nga it really takes a BITCH who has a mind of her own to decode man's unspoken language and win him.